I didn't meet Brandt Heatherington until I was in my 60s.
We went to the same school at different times, but even more important, we were members of the same fraternity. Sigma Phi Epsilon was a big factor in both our lives and it brought us together in friendship.
In November 2010, I got together with people from my chapter for the first time in 25 years. It was the 30th anniversary of our chartering, and I saw folks from my own tenure that I hadn't seen since we all were young.
I don't recall meeting Brandt then.
We became friends through Facebook, keeping up with Sig Ep stuff and commenting on various things. I saw how much he loved our chapter, and how hard he and others were working to re-establish it as the best fraternity at George Mason University.
We actually met in October 2017 at the annual golf tournament held by our chapter. I played surprisingly well and won two prizes, only one of them relating to skill.